After my somewhat freaky episode with that IT guy, I thought it'd be a good idea to write this little post and here's why.
I noticed lately that a few of you sugar babies posted photos of sugar daddies right there on your blog for the world to see. Babes: please be careful, I strongly recommend you don't do that. If you really want to share that info to help your fellow sugar baby friends, post those photos on your SB Facebook accounts or something. You dont know what these men are capable of doing out of rage if they ever saw their photos posted on someone's blog.
How would you feel if pissed off SD's created their own little community and posted YOUR pics with nasty comments and posted all info they had on you out of revenge?
Also, remember most SD's require discretion. Say a potential (and very decent) sugar daddy reads your blogs, and sees what some sugar babies do with the info they give us in privacy (photos, IM conversations) and put it out there for the world to see and read... Don't you think it'll make them run away or totally turn them off and not wanna get into these kind of relationships? They trust women to be respectful of them wanting to be discreet, only to find out there are sugar babies posting sugar daddy's photos.
Now what happened to me was hardly the end of the world. But the guy could have been a real psycho and done much worse. Be careful girls, don't give out too much information about these men. For all you know you could be putting your life in danger.
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Bi sugar daddies
Is it just me or do you also get grossed out when you look at a sugar daddy's profile and notice he's into women AND men? Now I dont have anything against gays or bi-sexuals. REALLY. But the idea of sharing MY man with another man isn't exactly enticing...
So... Say you found the ultimate, THE sugar daddy of all daddies who was everything you ever dreamed of, but you had to share him with another guy. Would you go for it?
So... Say you found the ultimate, THE sugar daddy of all daddies who was everything you ever dreamed of, but you had to share him with another guy. Would you go for it?
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Sugar Daddy blogger
Was surfing the net this morning and discovered a Sugar Daddy blog. It's refreshing to find more and more blogs from a daddy's point of view.
Enjoy!
Enjoy!
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Trouble
Hey guys,
A few of you contacted me to chat and exchange some advice. I haven't replied to some of you and here's why...
This guy I met a couple of months ago and saw once or twice contacted me lately after a long time with some bullshit excuse, and I never replied to him. Now being the mature man that he is, he hacked into my emails, deleted every single email that I had in my Inbox except the ones I had from him. Because he's a techno geek and owns his own IT consulting firm, doing that must have been a piece of cake for him.
My apologies for those of you who were expecting me to email them back... I can't. I lost everything.
I wouldn't be surprised if he deleted this whole blog.
A few of you contacted me to chat and exchange some advice. I haven't replied to some of you and here's why...
This guy I met a couple of months ago and saw once or twice contacted me lately after a long time with some bullshit excuse, and I never replied to him. Now being the mature man that he is, he hacked into my emails, deleted every single email that I had in my Inbox except the ones I had from him. Because he's a techno geek and owns his own IT consulting firm, doing that must have been a piece of cake for him.
My apologies for those of you who were expecting me to email them back... I can't. I lost everything.
I wouldn't be surprised if he deleted this whole blog.
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Sugar Daddy Dating Online
I've been searching the net lately and came accross a new blog. It is supposedly a reference when it comes to Sugar Daddy dating. Huh... not in my opinion. First of all, the writers keep linking back to a crappy Sugar Daddy website, which they co-own or something (there seems to be a female as well as a male blogger). Thing is, they're trying way too hard to plug that website in every single post. Looks ridiculous.
Even more ridiculous are some of the things they said in their posts:
These Sugar Daddy websites are not only discreet but they also do a great job of weeding out the “pretenders” –
They do a great job of weeding out the fakes? Really? Dude, what planet are you on???
Most women know someone who is or was a sugar baby.
Really? Again, on what planet???
sugar baby (i.e. a young, beautiful girl willing to do anything for you)
Unless a sugar daddy is willing to give me all of is wealth, I'm not willing to do everything for him.
sugar daddy websites – there are even 100% free sugar daddy dating websites –
Funny you say that, because that same website you keep linking back to, is NOT 100% free. You have to pay extra to be able to READ your emails. I dont call that 100% free, I call it 100% fucking cheap.
She [the SB] needs to know how to keep a Sugar Daddy, and that’s why I’m interested in teaching you how to maintain a millionaire Sugar Daddy relationship. The key factor is to eliminate the drama. The reason your man is interested in a Sugar Baby is because he’s tired of the drama inherent in most kinds of dating.
No shit, Sherlock! Did you really think we had to read your blog to figure that out?
in this world of ours where girls are supposed to be modest, it’s a lot easier – and less slutty – to approach a guy digitally than in a bar.
I'm running out of words...
most dating sites trick users into signing up for “free,” only to force them to pay to access any real functionality.
Isn't that what YOU do on your crappy website?
'Nuff said.
Even more ridiculous are some of the things they said in their posts:
These Sugar Daddy websites are not only discreet but they also do a great job of weeding out the “pretenders” –
They do a great job of weeding out the fakes? Really? Dude, what planet are you on???
Most women know someone who is or was a sugar baby.
Really? Again, on what planet???
sugar baby (i.e. a young, beautiful girl willing to do anything for you)
Unless a sugar daddy is willing to give me all of is wealth, I'm not willing to do everything for him.
sugar daddy websites – there are even 100% free sugar daddy dating websites –
Funny you say that, because that same website you keep linking back to, is NOT 100% free. You have to pay extra to be able to READ your emails. I dont call that 100% free, I call it 100% fucking cheap.
She [the SB] needs to know how to keep a Sugar Daddy, and that’s why I’m interested in teaching you how to maintain a millionaire Sugar Daddy relationship. The key factor is to eliminate the drama. The reason your man is interested in a Sugar Baby is because he’s tired of the drama inherent in most kinds of dating.
No shit, Sherlock! Did you really think we had to read your blog to figure that out?
in this world of ours where girls are supposed to be modest, it’s a lot easier – and less slutty – to approach a guy digitally than in a bar.
I'm running out of words...
most dating sites trick users into signing up for “free,” only to force them to pay to access any real functionality.
Isn't that what YOU do on your crappy website?
'Nuff said.
Sunday, October 18, 2009
Latest news...
Wow. I never thought that one of my latest posts would spark so much talk and controversy...
In other news, I've received 3 emails lately from men who had disappeared on me a while ago. I thought they had a lot of nerve to just email me back thinking I'd be right there waiting for them. If they had said they'd keep in touch with me, then I wouldn't have a problem. But that's not the case. You totally stop emailing me and ignore me, dont have the decency to apologize and you think I'm gonna jump right back at the chance of meeting you? Don't think so.
Besides, they all decided to fly to my city at the same time, and even if I wanted to, I couldn't make it cause I have events to attend for my job almost every day for the next 2 weeks...
Better luck next time.
In other news, I've received 3 emails lately from men who had disappeared on me a while ago. I thought they had a lot of nerve to just email me back thinking I'd be right there waiting for them. If they had said they'd keep in touch with me, then I wouldn't have a problem. But that's not the case. You totally stop emailing me and ignore me, dont have the decency to apologize and you think I'm gonna jump right back at the chance of meeting you? Don't think so.
Besides, they all decided to fly to my city at the same time, and even if I wanted to, I couldn't make it cause I have events to attend for my job almost every day for the next 2 weeks...
Better luck next time.
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
What IS a sugar daddy - sugar baby relationship?
That post I read the other day got me thinking, so I thought I'd clarify what a sugar daddy / sugar baby relationship means to ME. And it all made me realize it was probably one of the main reasons why I'm having a hard time finding someone.
Because I wont settle for anything less than what I want. And I'm not doing this for the money. I'm not depending on a sugar daddy to pay my bills. I'm not willing to sleep with an OK guy just to get some money and get me a Burberry tote or something. I can do that occasionally with my own money. I can go on trips 2-3 times a year. I get SPA treatments every month. I indulge in expensive restaurants every week. I got designer gear I buy for myself every now and then. AND I still have some money left for savings. I've learned to spend my money wisely in the past year, plus I've got an amazing job and recently got a promotion. The fact that I dont have financial issues gives me the “luxury” to be picky and not feel forced to be with a man. If I'm not feelin' it, it's not gonna happen.
What I want is a part-time lover. Intimacy is very important to me. If there's no chemistry and we're not on the same page, it wont happen. I'm a very sexual person. Amazing sex IS a luxury to me. It's part of the spoiling. Yeah, I want shopping sprees, trips to the SPA, week-end getaways... AND mind-blowing sex. It's part of my list. As a matter of fact, it's at the very top of it.
I know this is one of the reasons I'm having a hard-time finding a sugar daddy. I have my expectations and if the man doesn't meet them, I will not waste my time, or his. I recently revamped my profile on Seeking Arrangement (a big thanks to Spamcatch1 ;-)) and I've been getting a lot more emails. But you know what? Out of 20 men, only one is worth pursuing because he meets my standards of looking for the same things I am and being physically my type.
One thing I'm sure of: I'm no hooker. If you REALLY have to compare a sugar daddy / sugar baby relationship to any other kind of relationship, I'd have to say the closest thing to it is a trophy wife. In both cases, the women love luxuries and love to be spoiled. Only difference is one of them wants the husband and the kids, while the other doesn't want a serious relationship at all.
Because I wont settle for anything less than what I want. And I'm not doing this for the money. I'm not depending on a sugar daddy to pay my bills. I'm not willing to sleep with an OK guy just to get some money and get me a Burberry tote or something. I can do that occasionally with my own money. I can go on trips 2-3 times a year. I get SPA treatments every month. I indulge in expensive restaurants every week. I got designer gear I buy for myself every now and then. AND I still have some money left for savings. I've learned to spend my money wisely in the past year, plus I've got an amazing job and recently got a promotion. The fact that I dont have financial issues gives me the “luxury” to be picky and not feel forced to be with a man. If I'm not feelin' it, it's not gonna happen.
What I want is a part-time lover. Intimacy is very important to me. If there's no chemistry and we're not on the same page, it wont happen. I'm a very sexual person. Amazing sex IS a luxury to me. It's part of the spoiling. Yeah, I want shopping sprees, trips to the SPA, week-end getaways... AND mind-blowing sex. It's part of my list. As a matter of fact, it's at the very top of it.
I know this is one of the reasons I'm having a hard-time finding a sugar daddy. I have my expectations and if the man doesn't meet them, I will not waste my time, or his. I recently revamped my profile on Seeking Arrangement (a big thanks to Spamcatch1 ;-)) and I've been getting a lot more emails. But you know what? Out of 20 men, only one is worth pursuing because he meets my standards of looking for the same things I am and being physically my type.
One thing I'm sure of: I'm no hooker. If you REALLY have to compare a sugar daddy / sugar baby relationship to any other kind of relationship, I'd have to say the closest thing to it is a trophy wife. In both cases, the women love luxuries and love to be spoiled. Only difference is one of them wants the husband and the kids, while the other doesn't want a serious relationship at all.
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